tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post1725001738236649134..comments2024-03-22T05:55:48.117-04:00Comments on The Pervocracy: Four years!Cliff Pervocracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-84070693160257612572011-11-02T00:22:59.168-04:002011-11-02T00:22:59.168-04:00I found your blog 4 days ago and I love it bad. Yo...I found your blog 4 days ago and I love it bad. You're amazing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-51613543850341013992011-08-27T19:14:23.550-04:002011-08-27T19:14:23.550-04:00A toast to you Holly here's to 4 more years of...A toast to you Holly here's to 4 more years of awesomeness2020https://www.blogger.com/profile/03071645468644991022noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-63142266660383476322011-08-27T05:38:23.608-04:002011-08-27T05:38:23.608-04:00Happy belated blog-irthday!Happy belated blog-irthday!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00569290850910434331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-8894683773052751882011-08-26T02:55:41.700-04:002011-08-26T02:55:41.700-04:00Honest, unflinchingly introspective. Reminds me of...Honest, unflinchingly introspective. Reminds me of reading my journals from years ago...but your journal is public! Kudos.Ruby Ryderhttp://peggingparadise.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-58736789590503064682011-08-25T16:46:47.911-04:002011-08-25T16:46:47.911-04:00Not to say I don't now, I just no longer updat...Not to say I don't now, I just no longer update my LJ.<br /><br />@Don: I LOLed.Hershele Ostropolernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-8679267309451759192011-08-25T10:35:57.426-04:002011-08-25T10:35:57.426-04:00RE: Kay
You know, it's true. As a man, I nev...RE: Kay<br /><br />You know, it's true. As a man, I never moan. I just roar like a manly lion atop my Pride Rock, announcing my orgasm to the world.<br /><br />--MacLBThttp://healthymultiplicity.com/loonybrainnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-79130026392286398442011-08-25T09:50:18.313-04:002011-08-25T09:50:18.313-04:00RE: Anonymous 2:04
No worries. I've mostly m...RE: Anonymous 2:04<br /><br />No worries. I've mostly moved past that line of thinking, except for the really low days.<br /><br />--RoganLBThttp://healthymultiplicity.com/loonybrainnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-62843400304783022412011-08-25T08:10:10.164-04:002011-08-25T08:10:10.164-04:00This post inspired me to go back through my own di...This post inspired me to go back through my own diaries. I didn't like myself very much back then...f.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-36655956017958396322011-08-25T03:11:31.019-04:002011-08-25T03:11:31.019-04:00Happy anniversary, Holly. Almost every blog worth...Happy anniversary, Holly. Almost every blog worth reading is a work in progress. And your growth over the last four years has helped a lot of the rest of us grow as well. So congratulations, happy anniversary, and thanks!<br /><br />Take care,<br /><br />figleaffigleafhttp://www.realadultsex.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-53521337229901444782011-08-25T02:32:29.551-04:002011-08-25T02:32:29.551-04:00Oh Holly. I am so grateful for your words. Passion...Oh Holly. I am so grateful for your words. Passion for sexual justice flows out of you and is shaped by a kind heart. I look forward to reading about all the things you are learning and continuing to be inspired by you. FergusAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-30963483847836390382011-08-25T00:18:00.853-04:002011-08-25T00:18:00.853-04:00Congratulations on 4 years of blogging, impressive...Congratulations on 4 years of blogging, impressive. And congrats on being brave enough to read your own archives. Whenever I have read my own diaries from years ago I always wonder "Who _is_ that person and why is she so clueless?!"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-80303346629089243972011-08-24T23:24:41.209-04:002011-08-24T23:24:41.209-04:00Sometimes I think that if I were strong enough to ...<i>Sometimes I think that if I were strong enough to say "I'm not seeing you unless you treat me well, and I'm not fucking you unless you treat me like a goddamn princess," my relationships would go a lot better. But the problem is that I'm so damn happy to be seeing/fucking the guys at all, I can't stand to withhold it for any reason. </i> <br /><br />As someone who is currently here, this touched me, and made me feel like there was hope for _life_ getting better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-89880243915442985242011-08-24T22:53:42.794-04:002011-08-24T22:53:42.794-04:00Happy bloggversay! I've been reading for a few...Happy bloggversay! I've been reading for a few years and definitely feel like I've learned from your posts. Here's to more happy sexy years!Christynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-41942572097313137102011-08-24T22:38:31.810-04:002011-08-24T22:38:31.810-04:00In four years, you will look back at your current ...In four years, you will look back at your current views and wonder why you changed so little in four years.<br /><br />In six years, you will look back and wonder why you thought such crazy things, but it will seem difficult to recall much about your life before you moved into The Compound and became a Bride Of The Leader. Most of your time will be taken up in preparing for a mysterious event which The Leader and The Apostles refer to only as "The Inevitable."*<br /><br /><br />*(Predictions carry no guarantee. In reality, some details may vary.)Donhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15824445546892392815noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-2248451079131437762011-08-24T20:09:27.608-04:002011-08-24T20:09:27.608-04:00Yay for personal growth! Boo for Benny!Yay for personal growth! Boo for Benny!Brunonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-83234145000551154372011-08-24T18:33:49.062-04:002011-08-24T18:33:49.062-04:00Kay - Oh for God's sake. I could do without y...Kay - Oh for God's sake. I could do without yet another article analyzing women's behavior as if we were an exotic species being studied by intrepid explorers in pith helmets.<br /><br />Funny thing is, I <i>do</i> sometimes moan to encourage my partner and let him know when he's doing things right. But the article makes it sound like some craven manipulation. (And I also sometimes moan because OOOOHHHHHHH.)<br /><br />Also, men moan during sex sometimes. Can we recruit a researcher (a woman, of course!) to go out in a pith helmet and investigate the dark secrets behind that?Cliff Pervocracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-23014254304490564302011-08-24T17:38:55.177-04:002011-08-24T17:38:55.177-04:00I certainly know who hard it is to evaluate who on...I certainly know who hard it is to evaluate who one was in the past. Kudos on doing it so well!<br /><br />Oh, and here's an article you may want to read/mock relentlessly. :)<br /><br />http://www.mid-day.com/relationships/2011/aug/190811-women-moan-during-sex-men-climax-orgasm-lust-love.htmKaynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-81217999988990255612011-08-24T16:27:17.180-04:002011-08-24T16:27:17.180-04:00I think you're blaming yourself because now yo...I think you're blaming yourself because now you know how badly the relationship with Benny turned out.<br /><br />But you didn't know that then, so why would you expect yourself to? Even most assholes don't assault anyone.BlackHumorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00071672687796403744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-55530838675343479272011-08-24T16:02:41.913-04:002011-08-24T16:02:41.913-04:00An excellent post. It takes a lot of guts to reex...An excellent post. It takes a lot of guts to reexamine your past opinions like this.O.F.noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-61793083082552908572011-08-24T14:21:55.648-04:002011-08-24T14:21:55.648-04:00Congratulations on four years of blogging!
And if...Congratulations on four years of blogging!<br /><br />And if it's any consolation, I read that first quote as you being upset with societal attitudes, not you thinking that people considered ugly don't deserve their sexuality.<br />I don't think I've read the post itself, so I guess it could come across completely differently in context, but that's what I thought when I read it here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-77166417329864332502011-08-24T14:10:44.644-04:002011-08-24T14:10:44.644-04:00I think a very large part of growing up is realisi...I think a very large part of growing up is realising "holy crap, I was a douchebag 5 years ago" - and I hope that I'll never stop growing as a person, even if it means that I someday will end up calling my current self a douchebag.<br /><br />But congratulations on the four years Holly :DUlcnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-17867842876034163282011-08-24T14:04:14.266-04:002011-08-24T14:04:14.266-04:00Holly - here, have a good metaphor for the whole g...Holly - here, have <a href="www.viruscomix.com/page519.html" rel="nofollow">a good metaphor for the whole gradual change thing</a>. Absolutely true, as far as I can see, and I try to remind myself of it every day.<br /><br />I remember reading your archives back through <i>years</i>, sort of cringing at things you've written (especially when they contradicted stuff you said later), then telling myself it was probably just younger you, and people can change their minds. <3<br /><br />Rogan - Sympathies, and *hug* if you guys will accept one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-34782000311837018662011-08-24T12:36:51.180-04:002011-08-24T12:36:51.180-04:00Fnord - You're probably right. If it helps, i...Fnord - You're probably right. If it helps, it's only "wow, I was dumb" shame, not "I got what I deserved" shame.<br /><br />Anonytroll - Er, no. But I don't think very many feminists think that, either.Cliff Pervocracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-46659513153520705032011-08-24T12:30:43.267-04:002011-08-24T12:30:43.267-04:00Wait, so you DO think having sex with boys is betr...Wait, so you DO think having sex with boys is betraying the sisterhood now?Anonymous Trollnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-62805155404496189062011-08-24T11:58:21.007-04:002011-08-24T11:58:21.007-04:00Happy Blogday, Holly!
I think this is a reason ma...Happy Blogday, Holly!<br /><br />I think this is a reason many of us have journals, on or offline. So that whenever we feel like something is frustrating and stagnating and just not worth it, we can look back and see written proof that things do actually change.3:10https://www.blogger.com/profile/15594366663860689062noreply@blogger.com