tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post2777376162432694252..comments2024-03-22T05:55:48.117-04:00Comments on The Pervocracy: The Fear Factor.Cliff Pervocracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-26344559133629537882010-04-05T22:29:09.969-04:002010-04-05T22:29:09.969-04:00This actually sums up a big reasons I've never...This actually sums up a big reasons I've never had casual sex, even though I fantasise about it. You've very much hit the nail on the head in this entry.Niohttp://www.niofaps.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-54741684050696878042010-04-05T14:14:48.970-04:002010-04-05T14:14:48.970-04:00@Arsen: Sure, but one can weigh the odds/risks and...@Arsen: Sure, but one can weigh the odds/risks and decide it's worth chancing a robbery; that's a very different risk level than ending up a torso in a trunk.<br /><br />Also, if someone robs you, there's a good chance the police will take the crime seriously and look at the evidence, whereas rape, not always. It's not easily dismissable as "he said/she said" if she has your wallet.<br /><br />(Plus, your wallet is something that can be returned to you intact.)<br /><br />flightlessAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-53989197584309441672010-04-05T11:29:52.899-04:002010-04-05T11:29:52.899-04:00Thank you for this, Holly. Thank you thank you th...Thank you for this, Holly. Thank you thank you thank you. Especially the last line, which perfectly sums up thoughts I've spent hours attempting to explain to people.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-68985915632872134812010-04-02T20:45:04.055-04:002010-04-02T20:45:04.055-04:00Ach, I was beaten to the "stealing stuff"...Ach, I was beaten to the "stealing stuff" angle. But exactly this: men are just as vulnerable to being robbed as women, and indeed it's something I worry about myself with women who I don't really know. In fact, I think this stereotype is growing in popular culture, because in all movies it is the woman who tempts the man with sex then empties his wallet while he's asleep.Arsennoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-45021109109525769532010-04-02T19:10:51.022-04:002010-04-02T19:10:51.022-04:00Completely understandable. I've had the same f...Completely understandable. I've had the same fears when bringing in random girls...but like Budd said, instincts are absolutely amazingly valuable most of the times.Joonashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17427404168885024188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-65572459024217019302010-04-02T09:05:32.694-04:002010-04-02T09:05:32.694-04:00Tennessee Budd - I think my poor grammar obscured ...Tennessee Budd - I think my poor grammar obscured the question "is he worried whether <i>she'll</i> stop if he says no?", but I think the answer to that is also no.<br /><br />Joonas - Good on you for that.<br /><br />It's funny (well, not really), but a lot of the time I'm not as worried about rape as I am that the guy'll steal my stuff. If I fall asleep and he's in my house, I always think I'll wake up with my wallet and laptop gone. Because that's the kind of trusting person I am.Cliff Pervocracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-35568534083536316302010-04-02T08:52:11.596-04:002010-04-02T08:52:11.596-04:00This reminds me of a casual encounter I had a few ...This reminds me of a casual encounter I had a few weeks ago. I hooked up with a girl at a bar, we went to her place and started getting it on. Clothes were off and our bodies were like snakes when she suddenly just fell asleep (now I have to say that it WAS ~5am in the morning after a night of heavy drinking for the both of us). I got up from the bed, pulled on my boxers and went to sleep on the couch, mainly out of respect for her privacy. <br />She was so thankful in the morning for how I had acted, probably because she had some not-so-gentlemen-like one night stands too. We had coffee and are now good friends.<br />What I can't get out of my head, is thinking about how many of my friends would have acted the same way, because as we all know, if we are taken over be by the heat of the moment, it really is hard to stop.Joonashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17427404168885024188noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-15677670754846202152010-04-01T23:04:25.464-04:002010-04-01T23:04:25.464-04:00I think that may be true, Holly: only you are thin...I think that may be true, Holly: only you are thinking of that. I can't speak for all men, of course, but I'd think most already know that they'll stop when she says "no", or they already know they won't unless dissuaded.<br />Always trust your instincts: they're right more often than they're wrong.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com