tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post2847388750461414691..comments2024-03-22T05:55:48.117-04:00Comments on The Pervocracy: How to have the Big O.Cliff Pervocracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-80739949455873511952010-03-04T13:43:28.798-05:002010-03-04T13:43:28.798-05:00Ignacio's advice was that greater awareness of...Ignacio's advice was that greater awareness of your G-spot and what gets you off, as well as better muscle tone*, will make it much more likely that you can squirt, and be able to control whether you're going to squirt or not. That doesn't mean every femalebodied person can do it, but it can often be learned.<br /><br />I've definitely had much more intense G-spot orgasms since I've been practicing :-) so I am hoping I'll eventually get to the point where I can gush!<br /><br />flightless<br /><br /><br /><br />*Quote of the Day: "Fisting is like taking your cunt to the gym." --Ignacio RiveraAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-85304230668308490812010-03-04T07:37:38.683-05:002010-03-04T07:37:38.683-05:00"When all else fails, vaginal intercourse wit..."When all else fails, vaginal intercourse with someone you like will just about always give you a big O."<br /><br />This one is <b><i>not</i></b> just you! My man almost always helps me have big yummy orgasms! He's learned how to hit my g-spot the way I like, and it's best when he mind-fucks me as well. mmm!<br /><br />I squirt, and it certainly doesn't happen all the time, I can't predict it. But I find it really helps if I'm well hydrated, and teased a LOT. There has to be a looooot of clitoral stimulation first, but the teasing kind, where it takes forever to get any kind of orgasm, and no vaginal touching, not until I need it so bad I'm begging and half crying. <br /><br />I dunno if all women do this, but when I'm being fucked I tend to clench the cock inside me for all I'm worth. Feels better, but it also seem to trigger something in my g-spot that helps with the squirting. <br /><br />Then when the moment of orgasm comes there is an urge to...'bear down'. When younger I was always afraid, not only because this felt kinda like peeing, but because I was worried I was pushing him out of me, or worse yet by loosening my cunt muscles I might feel 'big' to him. Once I got over that foolishness and just went with it, I was gushing on his belly button. Man, are they lovely exhausting orgasms! Sometimes I'll even have two in a row is there's more teasing, and g-spot rubbing after the first one!majanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-48810792983800190792010-03-04T04:01:33.821-05:002010-03-04T04:01:33.821-05:00Holly, I'm pretty sure some women "can...Holly, I'm pretty sure some women "can't" squirt, but I'm also pretty sure that many women can learn.<br /><br />It's mental ("It's not pee") as well as physical -- the more you play with your G-spot the more sensitive it seems to get.<br /><br />But I can't tell you how to, my Y chromosome precludes that :-)wrmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14102470737392693528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-18130436683142905602010-03-03T22:15:27.365-05:002010-03-03T22:15:27.365-05:00Not to brag or nothin', Holly, but I've on...Not to brag or nothin', Holly, but I've only had those "little Os" you've described (where you don't feel like masturbating anymore but nothing much really <i>happened</i>) when I was on antidepressants.<br /><br />Most of my solo ones are medium, I guess. Partner-given ones tend to be HUGE. I've analyzed this and believe it's because my partner's technique is, by default, not as good as mine (no, bear with me here...). <br /><br />I tend to be utilitarian in my wankings. I do exactly what it takes to get myself off as quickly as possible. If someone else is tending to my needs, however, he won't be making the constant little adjustments to his movements, pressure, etc. that I instinctively make. It amounts to teasing, really: a whole lot of action that's so-good-but-just-not-quite-what-I-need-goddammit and when I finally do orgasm it explodes my brain.<br /><br />So yeah, I second the idea of getting yourself close and then stopping for a minute as a means of increasing the O-power.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-50437968009221529112010-03-03T22:10:37.200-05:002010-03-03T22:10:37.200-05:00Ed - I'm speaking to women who sometimes find ...Ed - I'm speaking to women who sometimes find their own sexual responses offputtingly undignified. Or, in fewer words, "icky."<br /><br />Flightless - Is squirting something you can achieve by working on it? I was under the impression that some people do it naturally and some people just don't. Personally I don't think it matters--if I can have awesome orgasms anyway, might as well save on laundry.Cliff Pervocracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-11655330442564258782010-03-03T21:53:18.826-05:002010-03-03T21:53:18.826-05:00"When all else fails, vaginal intercourse wit..."When all else fails, vaginal intercourse with someone you like will just about always give you a big O."<br /><br />Trust me. That ones just you!Lilith Kesslerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03944307668120034055noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-7581184463991008132010-03-03T19:53:17.931-05:002010-03-03T19:53:17.931-05:00For me, the most important things were:
1. Don...For me, the most important things were:<br /><br />1. Don't be self-conscious<br />2. With penetration, the angle matters<br />3. Consciously contracting vaginal muscles helps a lot<br />4. So does having a partner who knows what he's doing (note that this does not mean Mr. Let Me Show You The Awesome Sex Skills I Learned From Porn).aebhelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-5408081966060272112010-03-03T15:41:42.329-05:002010-03-03T15:41:42.329-05:00I have similar responses -- little clitoral orgasm...I have similar responses -- little clitoral orgasms that I can have pretty quickly, like when I'm masturbating or just grinding on a partner; much bigger, much more intense G-spot orgasms that usually come *after* a clitoral O, or else after I've almost-come-but-not and then keep playing. Penetration is essential for my G-spot O. I haven't squirted yet, but I am working on it!<br /><br />Ignacio Rivera (Papi Coxxx) (http://www.ignaciorivera.com/) did a G-spot workshop at Dark Odyssey this weekend, and demo'd their awesome squirtiness with the same approximate formula. In their case, it went: pocket rocket on the clit (plus audience volunteers to play with nipples etc.), quick clitoral O, then switch to the hard curved dildo and go after that G spot! It was really fun to watch.<br /><br />flightlessAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-28182682348415188842010-03-03T14:11:24.050-05:002010-03-03T14:11:24.050-05:00Gosh! I'd never call a woman's sexual emis...Gosh! I'd never call a woman's sexual emissions as "icky." But, then again, I love giving cunnilingus and sexual body fluids are a turn-on for me.Edhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09431421920878116404noreply@blogger.com