tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post4144186581779034291..comments2024-03-22T05:55:48.117-04:00Comments on The Pervocracy: Obsession.Cliff Pervocracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-26236692131885506152010-12-14T17:19:39.703-05:002010-12-14T17:19:39.703-05:00I just found this blog, but I really hoped you nai...I just found this blog, but I really hoped you nailed his sweet ass. I mean, how can you watch porn together and not end up boinking like bunnies, in the parlance of our time?<br /><br />FYI, I've never known any man to watch porn with a woman for more than 5 minutes and not be thinking "man, I wish she'd come over her and unzip my fly." Just sayin'<br /><br />RobAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-53854754162655969252009-03-09T00:27:00.000-04:002009-03-09T00:27:00.000-04:00good luck. i have always refused to date anyone i ...good luck. i have always refused to date anyone i worked with, and there are a couple of people i refused for that reason that i have sometimes regretted...<BR/><BR/>good luckdenelianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08083149213773118359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-73348045520268584542009-03-08T14:27:00.000-04:002009-03-08T14:27:00.000-04:00Sean - You have a good point there. In a way, hav...Sean - You have a good point there. In a way, having a crush is far more exciting than having an actual relationship.<BR/><BR/>Bruno - Um, yes. Yes I do. I'm not sure if I'd want him for white-picket-fence purposes, but since my current intentions are more nailing-his-sweet-ass oriented, I don't care if he's a bit of a weenie. 'Sides, I'm not being any better.Cliff Pervocracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-27786264004995048152009-03-08T14:18:00.000-04:002009-03-08T14:18:00.000-04:00Let's assume he's interested: Do you want a guy wh...Let's assume he's interested: Do you want a guy who's this passive?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-18165079347460529392009-03-08T10:55:00.000-04:002009-03-08T10:55:00.000-04:00Sounds like he's young and shy, maybe a bit submis...Sounds like he's young and shy, maybe a bit submissive. He needs you to take charge but won't dare say anything to you.<BR/><BR/>Ask him out for drinks, then ask him or make a move on him. All he can do is say no, either to the offer of drinks or to the invitation to fuck. Make it purely casual and it shouldn't interfere with the work relationship.Bobhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11402651457453813639noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-50335712535049897092009-03-07T07:59:00.000-05:002009-03-07T07:59:00.000-05:00On a part of what you said, it has reminded me how...On a part of what you said, it has reminded me how many times the best part of a date/relationship was the anticipation... those days and weeks of buildup and tension when you thought the other was attracted too, when every day was another possible step closer, and when you both had that smile at the slightest bit of returned affection. Now if there was just a way to make sure that lasted on and on... <BR/><BR/>Good luck with it, looking forward to the results.Captain Tightpantshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13776345884480352979noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-63515359103211745202009-03-07T06:06:00.000-05:002009-03-07T06:06:00.000-05:00>-Wouldn't go around being so goddamn attra...>-Wouldn't go around being so goddamn attractive if he didn't mean something by it, by God.<<BR/><BR/>"If animals don't want to be eaten, why do they taste so good?"<BR/><BR/> Seriously, the subtle "Gawds, but this is gonna be a boring weekend" is probably your absolute best bet. Gives him an opening he can either grab, or ignore...<BR/><BR/> As for awkwardness afeter the fact: you're professional, and so's he (I'm making an assumption here)... ;)Stringshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17399293868413376397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-50100934920178284172009-03-07T01:28:00.000-05:002009-03-07T01:28:00.000-05:00Well, I may have implied subtlety, but I know that...Well, I may have implied subtlety, but I know that I needed a bit more bluntness before I realized my now-fiance wanted me to ask her out. I just think that life's too short to waste time on timidness, especially when the rewards for boldness are so good.M. Derosierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16728319530136752397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-18296709128123825002009-03-07T01:11:00.000-05:002009-03-07T01:11:00.000-05:00M. Derosier - Hints is probably how it's gotta go....M. Derosier - Hints is probably how it's gotta go. Although we are possibly going to watch porn together sometime soon... am I doing "subtle" wrong? It was sort of his idea, sort of.<BR/><BR/>Anonymous - Well, that's my attitude toward strangers. But because I see this guy every day, there <I>has</I> to be a later, and seeing his face will kinda rub my nose in that 0% if things go south. I won't be able to help taking it personally, I'm overinvested already.Cliff Pervocracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-20937650871024362912009-03-07T01:08:00.000-05:002009-03-07T01:08:00.000-05:00Bah, I so rarely get to do much of anything with o...Bah, I so rarely get to do much of anything with other people that I don't have time for crap like that. For me, 50% later isn't really any better than 0% now, because there usually is no "later". So I'm just going to ask or not ask, and not take it personally if anyone says "no".Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-4011087074007982772009-03-07T00:47:00.000-05:002009-03-07T00:47:00.000-05:00To me, it sounds like you're looking for someone t...To me, it sounds like you're looking for someone to tell you to go for it. I'm not going to go that far, but I recommend dropping hints, like "I wish I had something interesting to do this weekend" or something. As for inter-office awkwardness once a relationship starts, the trick is to not act like anything is awkward. If you act awkward, things will be awkward. Just my experience, YMMV.M. Derosierhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16728319530136752397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-6243639476754800822009-03-06T23:33:00.000-05:002009-03-06T23:33:00.000-05:00Alan - I'm not afraid of making the first move. I...Alan - I'm not afraid of making the first move. I'm afraid of making the <I>only</I> move.Cliff Pervocracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-46218979490891597922009-03-06T23:22:00.000-05:002009-03-06T23:22:00.000-05:00You have to like a girl who can use quantum mechan...You have to like a girl who can use quantum mechanics to describe her agonizing fear of making the first move.alanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04152504268166466779noreply@blogger.com