tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post4258839278905985652..comments2024-03-22T05:55:48.117-04:00Comments on The Pervocracy: Not-friends with only one benefit.Cliff Pervocracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-49533674246123638672010-06-10T00:04:15.401-04:002010-06-10T00:04:15.401-04:00(tangency) check out this -- summary: someone trie...(tangency) check out <a href="http://www.theseventeenmagazineproject.com/2010_05_21_archive.html" rel="nofollow">this</a> -- summary: someone tries to live their life according to the dictates of 17 magazine for a month.cytengahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18036495792528055597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-19508037818072496922010-06-09T12:43:11.935-04:002010-06-09T12:43:11.935-04:00Well, at least now you have access to the fount of...Well, at least now you have access to the fount of wisdom which is Thundercat PUA.Eurosabranoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-51464823458080941892010-06-09T11:45:16.961-04:002010-06-09T11:45:16.961-04:00These kind of posts from you are definitely my fav...These kind of posts from you are definitely my favourite.Sidnanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-66146708202367176152010-06-09T00:03:45.238-04:002010-06-09T00:03:45.238-04:00Hey Holly, just wanted to comment a little on the ...Hey Holly, just wanted to comment a little on the idea of women "trapping" men with babies. Turns out it is a <a href="http://www.povertylaw.org/news-and-events/woman-view/Pregnancy" rel="nofollow">big fucking lie</a>, and that a shockingly high number of abusive male partners either coerce their partners about getting pregnant, or <b>sabotage</b> their partner's birth control (either by poking holes in their own damn condoms, or by fucking with their partner's pills).TheDeviantEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11962230588950968738noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-81079067697705708992010-06-08T22:13:28.693-04:002010-06-08T22:13:28.693-04:00I've had a few fuckbuddies try to segue things...I've had a few fuckbuddies try to segue things into dating, too (I'm a straight girl). Even after I specifically spelled out that we were just "having fun" and that's all. <br /><br />Wanting to turn friendly sex into a relationship isn't specific to gender. It's specific to people who aren't very self aware or sure of what they want.<br /><br />Okay, sometimes one person falls in love and the other doesn't. But I'd say the majority of the time, someone either wants companionship so badly that they try to make friendsex into something more than it is, or they've never actually been in love and assume that the cozy fun of friendsex is everything a relationship is supposed to be.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-91076135055799709842010-06-08T18:05:33.263-04:002010-06-08T18:05:33.263-04:00dale:
I'm bi, actually, but my point is that ...dale:<br /><br />I'm bi, actually, but my point is that articles like this take it as a foregone conclusion that if someone is going to push the boundaries of a fuckbuddy relationship, it's going to be the woman. That has never been my experience; nor has it been the experience of most of the women I know.<br /><br />This is a problem for several reasons, not the least of which being that men have a way of assuming that if they want a romantic relationship with a fuckbuddy, all they have to do is ask.<br /><br />S.- IAWTC.aebhelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-72463140346557544632010-06-08T17:43:55.460-04:002010-06-08T17:43:55.460-04:00I'm female. I sleep with both men and women. ...I'm female. I sleep with both men and women. I have had one woman I've slept with push for a relation. I don't know how many men exactly but I'd have to say about 70% of them wanted relationships, if not more. The men would get possessive and want to stake claim on me. The women were like "you're having fun, I'm having fun, let's not ruin a good thing".<br /><br />Is that a less biased experience?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-86735601429802791312010-06-08T17:36:43.534-04:002010-06-08T17:36:43.534-04:00aebhel, if you are heterosexual, your sample might...aebhel, if you are heterosexual, your sample might be slightly biased.dalenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-16143776400186559842010-06-08T15:52:01.842-04:002010-06-08T15:52:01.842-04:00I was just about to point out the Overeducated Nym...I was just about to point out the Overeducated Nympho steal (although I find both articles leave a sour taste in my mouth)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-16425112738947304882010-06-08T15:09:22.241-04:002010-06-08T15:09:22.241-04:00You know, I've had a couple of friends-with-be...You know, I've had a couple of friends-with-benefits where one partner wanted (and in some cases tried very hard) to turn it into a romantic relationship. It was always the guy. Go figure.aebhelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-70294944799240975162010-06-08T12:59:08.473-04:002010-06-08T12:59:08.473-04:00QP - Interesting. I think Over-Educated Nympho...QP - Interesting. I think Over-Educated Nympho's list kinda sucks too, but what made this guy think that the best way to improve it (other than posting it to a pay-for-content site under his own name, of course) was to <i>add</i> misogyny?Cliff Pervocracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-38410958704792688892010-06-08T12:27:07.131-04:002010-06-08T12:27:07.131-04:00Correction: he stole it directly from her. Or at l...Correction: he stole it <i>directly</i> from her. Or at least it seems that way.quizzical pussyhttp://quizzicalpussy.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-26260335713422639352010-06-08T12:26:05.399-04:002010-06-08T12:26:05.399-04:00Oh, here's something interesting: this guy sto...Oh, here's something interesting: this guy stole a lot of his list direction from <a href="http://theovereducatednympho.com/2006/09/25/the-rules-of-fuck-buddies-in-detail/" rel="nofollow">this sex blogger</a>.<br /><br />I still don't think adhering to her list sounds like much fun, but she also makes a distinction in the comments between "fuck buddy" and "friends with benefits", the former type of relationship being the target for this advice. She published her on her website on 25 Sep 2006, and his article was submitted 26 May 2009. He added a lot of creepy shit.<br /><br />I don't like any of the popular terms for "friend I'm fucking". Why can't we just keep people as actual friends and fuck them or not as we and they please?quizzical pussyhttp://quizzicalpussy.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-2445369399948887222010-06-08T09:52:55.528-04:002010-06-08T09:52:55.528-04:00I'm amused that the assumption is that he'...I'm amused that the assumption is that he's the one who wants a "friends with benefits" situation and she's the one who wants a capital-R Relationship. Especially if he's a "confidence coach."<br /><br />And honestly, I can't help but wonder if his "rules" are more to remind himself of the relationship boundaries, rather than her.jfpbookwormhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09845037337646489772noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-64843689684827787312010-06-08T09:40:21.604-04:002010-06-08T09:40:21.604-04:00I got that link from @WTFSexFacts on Twitter. They...I got that link from @WTFSexFacts on Twitter. They have a bit of a fan base, so it got around. Luckily they started cracking jokes about it just a few minutes after posting it, but it made me think of how much justice you could do it. Thanks for not letting me down!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-44414782596645450942010-06-08T07:03:02.088-04:002010-06-08T07:03:02.088-04:00I can't say I don't agree with the text, &...I can't say I don't agree with the text, 'cuz I do, but I really LOL'd when I finished the last paragraph. Didn't kinda expect that kind of ending.. :D Cheers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com