tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post1830437953669253728..comments2024-03-22T05:55:48.117-04:00Comments on The Pervocracy: Smoochies.Cliff Pervocracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-89378257835031124682008-02-26T02:11:00.000-05:002008-02-26T02:11:00.000-05:00A-ha, methinks I took a metaphor too literally. I...A-ha, methinks I took a metaphor too literally. It doesn't happen often, but it does happen. (Just for the record, I'm 46, a not-at-all-remarkable age for someone floating around in the realm of sex blogs and sex-pos feminism blogs - I agree that an 80-year-old doing so would be cool indeed.)<BR/><BR/>It looks to me like you're plenty outspoken enough to maintain your ownership of your blog. You notice my phrasing didn't restrict my suckerhood to Bruno's well-articulated insightfulness.<BR/><BR/>SunflowerSunflowerPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15069913788437731669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-39772244231592234682008-02-26T01:27:00.000-05:002008-02-26T01:27:00.000-05:00ZZ - See, Bruno, there's someone for everyone! Ev...ZZ - See, Bruno, there's someone for everyone! Even boys named "Shia."<BR/><BR/>And thanks, and good to have ya, ZZ.<BR/><BR/><BR/>Sunflower - Unless you're eighty or something, (and it would be seriously cool if you are), not bloody likely. He is pretty easy to fall for though.<BR/><BR/>And nice to have you here on the Bruno Blog, which occasionally gets falsely advertised as mine.Cliff Pervocracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-4663892186305294432008-02-26T01:13:00.000-05:002008-02-26T01:13:00.000-05:00Like zz, I came via Figleaf's, and will be back. ...Like zz, I came via Figleaf's, and will be back. I like your take on things, and I think I've fallen for Bruno, even if I am old enough to be his mother (eep, or even his grandmother). I'm a sucker for well-articulated insightfulness.<BR/><BR/>SunflowerSunflowerPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15069913788437731669noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-82604685787044972032008-02-25T13:01:00.000-05:002008-02-25T13:01:00.000-05:00I would totally do Shia LeBeouf, adorableness and ...I would totally do Shia LeBeouf, adorableness and all... ;) <BR/><BR/>This post has convinced me that this blog is teh awesome. Dropped by via Figleaf. Will be back. <BR/><BR/>-zz<BR/>http://zombiez.wordpress.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-39258931792026409522008-02-24T17:39:00.000-05:002008-02-24T17:39:00.000-05:00(Anyway I more meant "adorable" as in "dreams abou...<I>(Anyway I more meant "adorable" as in "dreams about smooching and has a crush" than as an overall judgement.)</I><BR/><BR/>I know, I'm just being overly sensitive because I'm admitting to something I'd rather ignore. There's a non-zero chance that she'd be receptive, of course, but I'm still working on finding the chutzpah to think up a way to do something about it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-64531038736956798612008-02-24T17:34:00.000-05:002008-02-24T17:34:00.000-05:00Bruno - I know my opinion isn't the one you really...Bruno - I know <I>my</I> opinion isn't the one you really want, but I think you're desirable as hell. It's possible for a guy to be adorable but not hot (see: Shia LaBeouf), but that's not you.<BR/><BR/>(Anyway I more meant "adorable" as in "dreams about smooching and has a crush" than as an overall judgement.)<BR/><BR/>Biting boys is fun! Especially when you come back in a week and the mark is still there. There's something very special about that.<BR/><BR/>*land shark*Cliff Pervocracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-64285970275567521052008-02-24T15:10:00.000-05:002008-02-24T15:10:00.000-05:00Right now I'm inclined to say something bitter and...Right now I'm inclined to say something bitter and petty about being adorable instead of desirable, but that would make me precisely the same as all the women I've heard complain about being cute instead of hot (not a meaningful distinction most of the time, by the way), so I won't.<BR/><BR/>To answer your question: neither. It was simply awkward. Perhaps we wanted different techniques? But somehow it was even more awkward than the woman who <I>really</I> liked to bite (when I don't bite and I'm not interested in being bitten).Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-75531915763074492632008-02-24T01:33:00.000-05:002008-02-24T01:33:00.000-05:00Bruno - You're adorable.(Also, I'm sort of curious...Bruno - You're adorable.<BR/><BR/>(Also, I'm sort of curious how someone could <I>not</I> be fun to kiss because I've never had that experience. Bad breath or visible reluctance?)Cliff Pervocracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-62436329967656288682008-02-24T01:01:00.000-05:002008-02-24T01:01:00.000-05:00I've been with only one woman who wasn't fun to ki...I've been with only one woman who wasn't fun to kiss. I think I was surprised at how much of a difference it made. And I think about kissing my current crush[1] all the time, almost to the exclusion of more explicit fantasies.<BR/><BR/>That's all just to say that even on Mars we like kissing.<BR/><BR/><BR/>[1] Yes, I'm still 13.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-13879269938236432712008-02-24T00:47:00.000-05:002008-02-24T00:47:00.000-05:00Karyn - Long-winded and also passionate and honest...Karyn - Long-winded and also passionate and honest. Don't be sorry.Cliff Pervocracyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-67019010982874627162008-02-23T19:38:00.000-05:002008-02-23T19:38:00.000-05:00Also, that was long-winded. Sorry about all that b...Also, that was long-winded. Sorry about all that blabbering.Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03906513197282718680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-2471432277777381972008-02-23T19:37:00.000-05:002008-02-23T19:37:00.000-05:00KISSING!!!! It's truly one of the best experiences...KISSING!!!! It's truly one of the best experiences I've had as far as being part of a couple goes.<BR/><BR/>The public be-discreet-kiss-on-the-cheek is always sweet (and yes, we all do know what it really means)... The kisses before sex that really <B>do</B> make you mad and wild. I can actually *tell* when the switches goes from 'off' to 'on' in my boyfriend when we make-out before sex - there's something that changes in his eyes and in the way he touches me and especially in the way he kisses me. It moves from the "we're kissing, this is good" stage to the "we're kissing and I love the way you're pressed up against me and I can <I>feel</I> how much you want me and GOD I want you now!" stage. (Definately a great place to be...)<BR/><BR/>The kisses we kiss during sex kind of seem like afterthoughts sometimes, but not bad. More like... You get so caught up in the moment when you're in the middle of sex that your head (or his) is thrown back and you're to into what you're doing to remember to kiss and then you look up (or down) and see them there, watching you, hot eyes, hot hands and you remember that kissing is so fucking great and you kiss them and it's bliss.<BR/><BR/><BR/>I've also got a thing for the way my boyfriend touches me - fleeting little touches in public, often across my lower back or my butt; a hand on my knee or thigh or holding my own hand in the car or on the couch; both hands sliding and pinching and grabbing during sex... And it makes me weak (yes, literally, I shake and shiver and feel woozy for a second or two) when he touches or kisses my neck or collarbones. Drives me wild, instantly.Khttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03906513197282718680noreply@blogger.com