tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post6521458070305858741..comments2024-03-22T05:55:48.117-04:00Comments on The Pervocracy: Full Frontal Feminism.Cliff Pervocracyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02080142422250604406noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-22500416086907073262013-10-18T13:53:35.735-04:002013-10-18T13:53:35.735-04:00"Flowery dick." I love that phrase.
Mi..."Flowery dick." I love that phrase. <br />MikeAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-31884809086431403172012-11-24T20:42:40.708-05:002012-11-24T20:42:40.708-05:00Anonymous - I believe you are being a bit of a flo...Anonymous - I believe you are being a bit of a flowery dick. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-20316410211863363972012-10-24T12:22:06.027-04:002012-10-24T12:22:06.027-04:00@ Separating tenderness and caring from sex is (ar...@ Separating tenderness and caring from sex is (arguably) not healthy for a person of either sex, but takes more of an effort for women, and takes more of a toll on them too, I think, because it's more unnatural for a person whose sexual mode is to be entered, rather than to enter.<br /><br />Anon, having a vagina does not make it more difficult for a female to differentiate between sex for pleasure and sex for pleasurable bonding. It is perfectly healthy for someone to have sex for pleasure, and if a person is having difficulty not becoming attached, it is because of their psychology, not their gender or sex.Alexnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-26187211064600967992011-11-23T11:21:38.662-05:002011-11-23T11:21:38.662-05:00Jaxibella, I think it's a denigration of heart...Jaxibella, I think it's a denigration of heart-centered tenderness, which men, due to their physical configuration, can maintain and still be sexually aroused, at the cost of deep self-ignorance, of course. Women can do that too, but only by learning to enjoy the drama of being conquered, disrespected, and abused, at least in sexual situations. Separating tenderness and caring from sex is (arguably) not healthy for a person of either sex, but takes more of an effort for women, and takes more of a toll on them too, I think, because it's more unnatural for a person whose sexual mode is to be entered, rather than to enter.<br /><br />As a male, I am pretty confident I'm not lying when I say that a woman who takes joy in the sexual act as one of the few nearly-unadulterated goodies of physical incarnation, whose selected partners' erections are friendly, respectful (if maybe a bit single-minded, or even in some cases, actually *obsessed*), and intent on gaining the outcome of pleasure for both (or "all") participants, where both partners' beauty, kisses, saliva, skin-taste, tickle-spots, and subtly-or-strongly scented sexual fluids are pure glory -- a woman like that is to be embraced, kissed, and, if her life circumstances permit (not wanting to screw up her relationship(s), etc.), fucked to her heart's content.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-24497828067894048062011-09-27T13:06:15.162-04:002011-09-27T13:06:15.162-04:00I don't think you need to abandon the name &qu...I don't think you need to abandon the name "feminist" to distance yourself from the venom - if anything, we should embrace it and change that stereotype. <br /><br /><br />Also. I was just asking some friends last night why it's wrong for a woman to enjoy sex as much as a man. Why does it make me a "slut" in other peoples' eyes, even when I'm only fucking one person? <br /><br /><br />The world is a messed up place.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-1938390984866381982011-09-27T08:04:54.357-04:002011-09-27T08:04:54.357-04:00This is beautiful.This is beautiful.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05528428405281908694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-37635489844200210472011-08-29T09:23:46.508-04:002011-08-29T09:23:46.508-04:00...holy crap, I just realized this is from three y......holy crap, I just realized this is from three years ago. Looks like I've got some catching up to do!still kellynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-63946145443877652792011-08-29T09:19:24.709-04:002011-08-29T09:19:24.709-04:00Great post! It's funny, this has been somethi...Great post! It's funny, this has been something I've been dealing with a lot lately in my own life. I'm really glad I stumbled across this blog (thank you tumblr) -- I'm going to enjoy reading your other posts. <br /><br />I actually in the last year put my name (and a picture--now taken down) on my blog. The shitstorm that followed was just what I'd been afraid of. Nothing as serious as a boss finding my page, thankfully, since I do write about sex and feminism quite candidly. However, several folks found out about my blog and used it as a medium to say some pretty oppressive stuff. <br /><br />So I'm with you on that front-- It'd be nice to be able to talk about sex and be female and not get labelled a slut (which is supposedly a less "valid" identity?). But in the meantime... I'm going to the library and getting Valenti's book.Kellyhttp://therottenlittlegirls.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-31560192260881017402007-11-25T11:34:00.000-05:002007-11-25T11:34:00.000-05:00Why are so many people ashamed to admit they are f...<I>Why are so many people ashamed to admit they are feminist?</I><BR/><BR/>Unfortunately, TBK, there are feminists who present such hateful views of men, that other feminists try to distance themselves from such venom by abandoning the name. Which is a mistake, IMO.<BR/><BR/>The fact that Holly can present her views without denigrating others makes me very grateful that she is blogging.<BR/><BR/>Great post, Holly. I hope that, despite the tribulations that afflict so many women bloggers, you will continue to write here.<BR/><BR/>KochanieJ.B. Kochaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03731276067288327319noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-27904800354727096362007-11-22T08:00:00.000-05:002007-11-22T08:00:00.000-05:00Why are so many people ashamed to admit they are f...Why are so many people ashamed to admit they are feminist? In every issue of BUST mag they interview women and ask them point blank if they consider themselves a feminist, and most of them weasel out of it or deny it. The best excuse I've heard is "I consider myself a humanist." Oh fine.<BR/><BR/>I like when men call themselves feminist. God that's hot.<BR/><BR/>TBK who embraces the F wordKendra Hollidayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01854949040842771326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-1114735912766214592007-11-21T21:41:00.000-05:002007-11-21T21:41:00.000-05:00I gotta tellya, I always respect you in the mornin...I gotta tellya, I always respect you in the morning...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2770580070906411828.post-63189136641860212232007-11-21T16:29:00.000-05:002007-11-21T16:29:00.000-05:00Fantastic~Fantastic~Roxiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10989862745571420807noreply@blogger.com