The Pervocracy

[I'm heading out of town on Christmas business for a few days.  I hope all the Pervocrats have a merry and, if applicable, sexy holiday...

[Finals are over!  WHEEE!  Big serious essay today!  Cosmocking next!] I talk a lot on this blog about how sex should be dictated by wha...

[I'm busy studying for finals. In the meantime, enjoy this guest post by Jack. I think it's important information for people who...

Female horniness is an important, and missing, narrative in our culture.  We have a well-developed idea of female sluttiness , but that...

You want a buttsex post?  I'll give  you a buttsex post!  I'll give it to you right up your... Internet connection! How to Butt...

I hope everyone had a lovely Thanksgiving.  (Or a nice completely regular day if you're not from the US, I suppose.)  I got to spend ...

Pink cover!  Adele!  Oh my God there's a woman over 120 pounds on the cover of Cosmo oh my God!  I'm vaguely insulted they put her...

A number of people on the de-escalation post asked for a post on de-escalating yourself.  I'll say up front: I'm on shakier groun...

It's a school night.  Quick one.  (Several people asked for a post on "self-de-escalation," so I'll try to put one toget...

This week in Developmental Psychology class I presented a paper on dating violence in teenage relationships.  I'm not going to rehash...

This came up in comments on an earlier post, but it's worth a post of its own: why do I care and fret so much about whether or not peo...

Photo credit: Lindowyn Stock (Trigger warning for rape and abuse.) I've been seeing a common underlying idea lately in a lot of di...

I know I promised a buttsex post, but there's something you should know about me: I am a liar .  Also something more outrageous happen...

Recently I've been criticized by other feminists for being a "sex-pozzie"--a sex-positive feminist, someone who believes tha...

Let's finish this! Mostly because I've been sitting on it in "ugh, do I have to?" misery and it's been stopping me ...

White cover! Nicki Minaj! What the hell is going on with her neck?! Sex secrets, kinky sex... sexify your eyes! I am not sure I want my...

Everyone (well, everyone cool) agrees that consent is the  most important thing in sexual activities.  It's the difference between har...