The Pervocracy

Flickr user BadSwan Have you ever been in a house that had something just egregiously wrong with it?  Something massively unsafe and unc...

On our vacation, Rowdy and I stayed with his family.  His parents made us sleep in separate beds because we weren't married.  Gotta ke...

[This time I have a really good excuse for not posting!  Namely that I was very busy lying in the sun by the shore of a beautiful lake in th...

Via tumblr  happybdsm , which is awesome [Oh jeez it's been too long. I don't even have a good excuse this time.  The dog ate my...

Blue cover!  Pink!  I mean... er, you know what I mean, there's a picture!  "Where to Meet a Guy in June!" Thanks, Cosmo, ...

tumblr user laceandcombatboots EDIT: Okay, some people are linking to this with the wrong intentions. I need to clarify.  This is NOT NO...

I've mentioned a couple times that Rowdy and I, despite being together almost two years now, always ask for consent before sex.  I fee...

Rowdy and I are not officially a mono/poly couple, but we're pretty close these days.  I've only had sex with other people a handf...

I'm changing my name!  Yep!  I shall henceforth be known as Cliff Pervocracy . Details: a) I'm still going primarily by "H...

Man, I wish I could write more often. :( But Cosmo's here, and Cosmocking stops for nothing ! Pink... um, tomato?... er, salmon? ...

[Trigger warning for rape and BDSM abuse.] I went to a sex party not long ago.  I talked to a bunch of the members and organizers of the...

I've gotten a whole bunch of emails lately that read like the following (with various combinations of gender/orientation/activity): ...

flickr user  DonkeyHotey I spent the weekend with my family.  It was not a pleasant experience.  It was an experience that made me wonde...

[Oh God it's been too long since I last posted.  I meant to!  But then I moved into a new house!  It's not far from the old one but ...

Rowdy and I had another little  relationship summit last night.  We're trying to make it a monthly thing.  It's quickly gone from...

Okay, let's get this out of the way so I can write real posts again.  My jaw is finally  healing (it seriously was horrible for a while ...

It's that time again.  (And it's totally  Tuesday, just like I promised.  Shhh.)  Thanks to Rowdy and Star for co-Cosmocking! ...

Why haven't I posted this week? Because this: xkcd I had two badly infected teeth pulled on Monday, and well, without getting gra...

Contraception's been in the news lately.  Which is so weird .  I mean, it's the 21st century!  We have iPhones and robotic surgery...