The Pervocracy

First, a (somewhat last-minute) ANNOUNCEMENT : I will be speaking on "How To Have Sex On Purpose" at the University of Pittsburg...

Pink cover!  Nina Dobrev!  Which is odd because the main interview/profile (which is almost always the person on the cover) is with Rebel...

[Apparently this is how I procrastinate Cosmocking now. Darnit. It is coming, I swear.] We continue where we left off: with a heroine def...

Alright, I should have done this years ago, but since the meme is still not dead, I think it's not too late. I'm reading Fifty ...

The first time I touched a penis, I was amazed: it's just skin!  It didn't feel all that different from the skin anywhere else on ...

I know I start too many posts with excuses, so I'll just say: major family crisis which is still ongoing and will probably end badly.  (...

Pinkish cover!  Kelly Osbourne!  Apparently Cosmo feels that tracheas and neck muscles are really unbecoming, this is the zillionth cove...

One of the tough parts about discussing BDSM in a feminist context is that everyone seems to have a different idea of what BDSM means.  (T...

I don't know how long I can keep doing this.  I thought Cosmo would be Cosmo forever, but now I'm afraid/hopeful it might not be.  T...

It's that time again!  Blue-green cover!  Rachel Bilson!  I have no idea who that is!  "Stuff You Think He Wants In Bed... But Re...

[I'm back!  I know, another really long unannounced hiatus.  I have a good excuse this time.  I had to move sort of unexpectedly and und...

Yellow cover!  Kim Kardashian!  I don't know what's going on with her... lower garment!  I think Cosmo's stylists are getting...

So much "how to BDSM" material is really "how to top."  Which is understandable, up to a point.  The top performs most...

Captain Awkward. Or Sue.  I might have gotten my notes switched. I had an amazing time in Chicago this weekend.   Everyone at the Unive...

[Content notes (and how fucked up is it that a fluffy fashion magazine needs them?): fat-hatred, transmisogyny.] Pink cover!  Mi...

First, some big news: I am going to be speaking at the University of Chicago Sex Week! More details available here , but the short versio...