I've always been curious. Use the ticky boxes to answer anonymously if for some reason you're embarrassed to talk about your boners.
-What's it like to have an erection? Is it annoying, pleasurable all on its own, slightly painful, neutral? Do you often get them at random times? Do you have any conscious control over them? Can you pee with an erection?
-What's sex like? How do girls (or boys) feel inside? (I kinda know of course, but only with fingers.) What about sex really feels best to you--pressure, friction, warmth, "all of the above it's sex you silly girl"? Do different partners feel very different?
-What, in your opinion, makes a partner "good in bed" or not?
-Are your nipples sensitive? How 'bout ears? Butt? Anywhere else?
-What's it like to come? Does it feel more like a peak or a relief or both? Do you feel it most right before you ejaculate or as it's happening?
-So, uh, just in general... what's it like having a dick?
EDIT: One more: what are condoms like? How do they change sensation?
Okay, I'll play!
ReplyDeleteQ. What's it like to have an erection?
A. Difficult to explain. Obviously, it makes your entire dick receptive to pleasure, which is a very good thing!
Q. Do you get them at random times?
A. When I was younger, yes. Now that I'm an experienced "user" I don't have that problem. And yes, I have control over my dick at ALL times.
Q. Can you pee with an erection?
A. Yep, but it can get messy!
Q. What's sex like?
A. Again, hard to explain. Being inside a woman is like being inside of a hot, fleshy glove. It perfectly stretches to touch every square inch of your dick. It's slippery and smooth, and feels like... home!
Q. Do different partners feel different?
A. Initially, at least, yes. Until a woman's pussy "learns" to accommodate your dick, it feels very different from woman to woman. Once this accommodation occurs, however, I can't really feel much difference. I think the thrill of new partners is greater than the actual differences. Does that make sense?
A. What makes a partner good in bed?
Q. Not being judgmental, listening to your partner, and not taking things personally. For instance, I want a woman to tell me what feels good. I don't take it personally if I'm not quite hitting her secret spots, so she helps me out. I want to pleasure her, and she needs to help me do that or the sex will be lacking.
Q. Are your nipples sensitive?
A. Not mine.
Q. Anywhere else sensitive?
A. Your balls, obviously. It feels extremely good to have a woman lick and gently suck your balls. Of course, if the guy isn't clean he doesn't deserve this rare treat!
Q. What's it like to cum?
A. Exquisite! Somebody once said that an orgasm is the only thing that will never disappoint you. Boy, is that ever true!
Q. Do you feel it most right before you cum, or as it's happening?
A. For me, the best pleasure occurs just prior to cumming. It's like a wave of pure pleasure that blasts from your dick to the rest of your body. It's the best kind of intensity you can imagine. Once you start cumming, however, things grow sensitive VERY quickly. This is why a guy will often jerk away from you if you suck too hard after he's finished cumming.
I think this is where orgasms differ for women and men. For women, orgasms take greater concentration to reach. For men, we have to concentrate NOT to reach them!
Q. What's it like having a dick?
A. I have always been pleased with mine! It never lets me down, and has rarely embarrassed me.
Well, I hope that gave some insight into your questions. It's hard to explain many of things, as I'm sure you can imagine.
Cheers!
Mr. Sicko - Wow, thank you. Seriously detailed answers there for questions I knew would be hard to explain. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteI never noticed an "accommodation" thing but in retrospect it makes sense--I have noticed that the longer I'm with a partner, the better the sex seems to "fit", but I never thought of that as a physical adaptation before.
Q1: I agree it is hard to explain, it just makes everything more receptive, well to me anyway.
ReplyDeleteQ2: I rarely get them at random times, but sometimes I do. I like it, it makes me feel like i am young again at times.
Q3: Just try to aim that thing when it is hard. That might be one of the reasons I stay away from giving golden showers.
Q4: Wet, firm ,friction filled, agonizingly pleasurable glory. Yeah, that about sums it up.
Q5: Sometimes you get a pussy that never feels quite right. Then there are times when it feels like that pussy was just made for your cock.
Q6:Enthusiasm. There are others, but that is the key.
Q7: Mine are super sensitive, if they are played with right , I can be oh so happy.
Q8: Balls, the perineum, and my ass cheeks get really sensitive during sex.
Q9: Just pure pleasure
Q10: I start getting an extremely intense feeling a couple of minutes before I cum and it just builds right up to and after I let go. The pleasure shoots all through your body.
Q11: I don't think I can explain any better what it is like to have a dick than the rest of these questions has already got out of me.
It can be annoying to have an inappropriate erection, or if it gets bunched up in clothes, but usually it is mildly pleasurable by itself. Usually not random at my age (early 40's) but it doesn't take much, and it can be something that has more disgust than sexual, if there is sexual content. I can pee with an erection with some concentration if I don't have to point my penis down. Peeing into a toilet is difficult, it is usually easier to let it go down a bit.
ReplyDeletePressure, warmth and movement are probably the most important. It has been too long since I've had a different partner, but yes, somewhat different.
A lot of "good in bed" is being an active participant, with some variety, and when she's enjoying herself I know.
I don't know if I'd call my nipples sensitive, but they are pleasurable when played with. They need rougher sensations than hers do. Ears, not much. Butt cheeks, some. Anus? Very much.
Coming is both a peak and a relief. The more I hold off, the better it is usually. I can feel a buildup, usually I can pause and let it die back down. Occasionally I misjudge--That can be disappointing in that the ejaculation happens with about 1/4 the pleasure, and then it is over.
Immediately after ejaculation, I usually and lose interest in sex--I'd rather cuddle and rest for a while, I don't mind finishing my wife but it is out of love and fairness rather than something I want to do sexually. When I was younger, the down period was minutes, now it is about an hour. The idea of going down on her when she's full of my semen is hot before I come, but not at all after--Kind of a catch-22.
It has been a long time since I've used condoms, but basically a general dulling of sensation.
Matty and Anon - Thanks for the detailed answers!
ReplyDeleteWet, firm ,friction filled, agonizingly pleasurable glory.
Mmmm.
-What's it like to have an erection? Is it annoying, pleasurable all on its own, slightly painful, neutral? Do you often get them at random times? Do you have any conscious control over them? Can you pee with an erection?
ReplyDeleteIt can be any of those things, but it's very rarely not a pleasurable feeling. It makes you hyper-sensitive to the least touch, so even bedsheets or a pair of shorts create lots of sensation.
But this morning I rolled over on morning wood and ended up with my considerable bodyweight attempting to drive the erect penis straight through the mattress. That hurt like hell.
-What's sex like? How do girls (or boys) feel inside? (I kinda know of course, but only with fingers.) What about sex really feels best to you--pressure, friction, warmth, "all of the above it's sex you silly girl"? Do different partners feel very different?
I've only had one partner. What do girls feel like inside? Well, I'm a big fan. The warmth is wonderful, but the soft sliding sensation is what I love. It's friction, but it's not normal friction.
-What, in your opinion, makes a partner "good in bed" or not?
Well, I've only had one partner, so what do I know? I love her very much. Women joke that for a man the most important thing is "willingness" but there's something to that. There's nothing that excites me more than the nights when she acts like she wants me, even a little. Like maybe she'd be disappointed if I said "No."
(But I never test this theory by actually saying no.)
-Are your nipples sensitive? How 'bout ears? Butt? Anywhere else?
Yes, yes, and yes. Other places? She can put her hand just about anywhere and get my attention, but I suppose no other places are as sensitive as those.
-What's it like to come? Does it feel more like a peak or a relief or both? Do you feel it most right before you ejaculate or as it's happening?
To be honest, that's the least important moment. And if I'm telling the truth, it happens way too early no matter what I try. My wife is your opposite; there is no way for her to finish based on having me, a toy, or anything else inside her. She has to have her clit stimulated or she'll never finish, and we both have a hard time with that during intercourse. She got so tired of me trying to hold back that now we just go for it. When I finish, I finish, and then I concentrate on her. Luckily, I absolutely love cunnilingus, and that works for her.
-So, uh, just in general... what's it like having a dick?
Careful how you sit on a bike seat. On the other hand, it's nice that my wife can just pass her hand over the front of my pants if she wants to know whether I'm aroused (although, if I wasn't aroused before she did that, it usually does the trick.)
One more: what are condoms like? How do they change sensation?
You know, I used a condom the first time I had sex and then every time after that for years. It was only when we'd been married a few years and thought we were ready for a baby that we threw caution to the wind. And I never minded the condom; it was no big deal. When I gave them up, it was a whole new world, and now that we've had the baby and gone back to birth control, I hate the things. I don't hate them enough not to have sex with my hot wife, mind you, because it's not like there's pepper spray in there, but now I see what all those old guys were talking about when women started demanding that they use condoms. Once you know what a woman's flesh and warmth and wetness feel like, the condom takes all that away. It's not just friction; everything is distorted.
having a dick is cool. it brings a lot of pleasure and gives a lot too. Bumpy taxi-cabs or rail carriages can still produce erections at 50, without any other stimuli. When dicks,lust and Love are in conjunction heaven aint far away. I've enjoyed plenty of random sex but conclude that love, esp. new love adds a dimension all its own.
ReplyDeleteWomen feel as different from one another as they taste. Something to do with angles, but some partners fit better than others.
A woman who's good in bed is one who's genuinely enjoying herself.
Let go. TECHNIQUE comes second to honest enjoyment.
Since I came across this late, and the other responders have done a fairly decent job of answering every other question, I'll just answer the last.
ReplyDeleteImagine eating the best steak you ever had; hot, juicy, flavorful, tender.
Now imagine eating that steak with a sock over your tongue.
That's sex with a condom.
They may be a necessary evil, but just the same, they're EVIL.
>What's it like to have an erection?
ReplyDeleteEnjoyable, sometimes, and annoying, sometimes. Yea, I get them at pseudo-random times. Also, when reading your blog.
Of course you can pee with an erection (OK, not with a strong one, there's a little valve in there) but the problem is, you end up peeing on the ceiling.
>What's sex like?
Good grief. It's sex. It's the most intimate form of being together. It rawks.
>How do girls (or boys) feel inside?
Smooth, warm, nice.
>What about sex really feels best to you
Being with a person. Intimately.
>What, in your opinion, makes a partner "good in bed" or not?
Actually wanting sex, not just having sex as a "duty" almost. The rest is just improvisation.
OK, of my 25+ sexual partners, some once-off, some more than once, only the first didn't really seem to like sex. I learned from that and moved on :-)
>Are your nipples sensitive?
The pierced one more than the other. Guys can train their nipples to be sensitive, just like girls can learn to ejaculate. A generalization, of course.
>What's it like to come? Does it feel more like a peak or a relief or both? Do you feel it most right before you ejaculate or as it's happening?
Depends on when last I had sex, how long the foreplay was, and whether it's penetration, masturbation, or a BJ.
>So, uh, just in general... what's it like having a dick?
It rocks. But I'd like to experience having boobs and a cunt too... *sigh*
>EDIT: One more: what are condoms like? How do they change sensation?
Condoms suck. Bigtime. And then some. In the 'style, they're necessary, of course... and one can have some really good sex notwithstanding, but... they suck. And not in a good way.