Sunday, June 15, 2014

30 Days of Kink: Day 7.

Day 7: What's your favorite toy?

Is that cheating?  I feel like I'm trying to out-clever all these questions.  If it asked me my name I'd probably start into "does naming things give us the illusion we understand them?  is a name a real part of a thing?  if I have more than one name, am I still one person?" instead of saying my goddamn name.

A hand really is my favorite toy, though.  There's other toys I like, but this one is an impact toy, a sensation toy, and an insertable.  It's very easy to carry for travel and always ready to use.

I have a pretty formidable collection of floggers and restraints and dildos and evil sticks and whatnot.  They're lovely.  There's a lot of craftsmanship in them, the underground artistry of leather and steel and silicone.  These toys are beautiful and carry a lot of personal meaning and I'm very proud of them.  But when I feel a hand on me, I know it can feel me too.


  1. "But when I feel a hand on me, I know it can feel me too."


    1. That's exactly what I was going to say.

      Right there - perfect encapsulation of all the best things about fuckery, kinky or otherwise.

  2. Semi-related: trying to outsmart questions or problems is a thing I always do, and it cost me more than a few points at uni exams. It may feel somewhat childish and "meaningless teenie rebellion"-style (not that those were bad, it's just not what one's going for), but I enjoy it—and I find it somewhat hot when other people are able to do it. Maybe this is me aspiring to be a very creative person (music, programming, design, and obviously "kink" sessions demand more creativity than "vanilla" ones)—I shall not pretend it to be a tell-tale sign of creativity, but I feel it does hint at how important creative thinking is to that person. Thoughts on this, anyone?