Y'know, just spending time with someone I really, really like is way better than crazy sex with someone I kinda like.
I don't really, really like that many people though. I'm not a misanthrope (which sometimes seems to put me in the minority, at least in the geeky world I live in), I like tons of people, but really really like comes along maybe once a year. Tops. And leads to a sexual relationship rather less often. Between amazing kindred-souls from the blue... I gotta do something with the rest of my time.