Today I deleted my OkCupid profile. It gave me an amazing rush of relief.
Alan never did change his OkCupid/MySpace/Facebook profiles from "single" the whole nearly-a-year we were dating. I never said anything because that would be silly and pushy, but I noticed.
My sister found one of my profiles listing me as "interested in: both" and convinced my mom that I was gay.
My Facebook relationship status is always set to "It's Complicated." So far, that's never been inaccurate.