Friday, September 17, 2010


Funny thing: thrusting doesn't do that much for me. Oh, it's not bad, I wouldn't kick thrusting out of bed for eating crackers, but it's not my preferred penetrative movement. When I masturbate there really isn't any in-out, just in-deep-and-grind. The feeling of something sliding around inside me does a lot more than the feeling of something sliding in and out of me. Sometimes, if a guy is well hung or using a big toy or lot of fingers, I don't even really need him to move.

I get the impression, though, that the in-out is pretty central to male pleasure (a lot of guys won't even stay hard for long without it), so I don't expect sex to be nothing but grinding. Which is fine, and even gets me off--both physically and in the feeling of being used. There's a certain brutal cachet to being pounded that nothing else can match, but on the level of pure sensation, I don't want a cock pounding me. I want it way in there massaging me.


  1. (I really agree with this! I can't believe there haven't been any comments.)

  2. Well, as a guy, it's not really something I can comment on meaningfully, other than to say I am delighted that my partner is as explicit and expressive with me in what her preferences are as Holly obviously is with her partners.

  3. I was just thinking about this the other day and I completely agree. Fast in and out does very little for me.

  4. (Reading through the archives and just felt like commenting.)

    I'm exactly the same way. I LOVE penetration (my toys love me back!), but it's at most a rocking motion, maybe very short firm strokes (like barely out strokes).

    Jackhammering is so freaking annoying. ><

  5. I've sort of found that too. (I am totally necro-ing this post, sorry but not sorry).
    I enjoy the energy that happens with thrusting, but what made me come hardest was a slow gliding.
    When I toy, I find that having it up to the base and grinding it about a 1/2 inch in and out is what does it for me.