Funny thing: thrusting doesn't do that much for me. Oh, it's not bad, I wouldn't kick thrusting out of bed for eating crackers, but it's not my preferred penetrative movement. When I masturbate there really isn't any in-out, just in-deep-and-grind. The feeling of something sliding around inside me does a lot more than the feeling of something sliding in and out of me. Sometimes, if a guy is well hung or using a big toy or lot of fingers, I don't even really need him to move.
I get the impression, though, that the in-out is pretty central to male pleasure (a lot of guys won't even stay hard for long without it), so I don't expect sex to be nothing but grinding. Which is fine, and even gets me off--both physically and in the feeling of being used. There's a certain brutal cachet to being pounded that nothing else can match, but on the level of pure sensation, I don't want a cock pounding me. I want it way in there massaging me.
(I really agree with this! I can't believe there haven't been any comments.)
ReplyDeleteWell, as a guy, it's not really something I can comment on meaningfully, other than to say I am delighted that my partner is as explicit and expressive with me in what her preferences are as Holly obviously is with her partners.
ReplyDeleteI was just thinking about this the other day and I completely agree. Fast in and out does very little for me.
ReplyDelete(Reading through the archives and just felt like commenting.)
ReplyDeleteI'm exactly the same way. I LOVE penetration (my toys love me back!), but it's at most a rocking motion, maybe very short firm strokes (like barely out strokes).
Jackhammering is so freaking annoying. ><
I've sort of found that too. (I am totally necro-ing this post, sorry but not sorry).
ReplyDeleteI enjoy the energy that happens with thrusting, but what made me come hardest was a slow gliding.
When I toy, I find that having it up to the base and grinding it about a 1/2 inch in and out is what does it for me.
-Ariadne