What gross old people and Cosmopolian magazine have made complicated, happy slutty Davis Square sex can render simple again. There's something to be said for "we're all kinky poly geeky sex-positive feminists here" social circles. I'm with my people. Fucking them.
When a guy has TWO copies of "The Ethical Slut" next to his bed, well... I guess he likes to read them both and let other people read them too.
Sex is good. People are good. Life is good.