Monday, June 15, 2009


I'm not sure which is sexier: when a man receiving pleasure looks utterly enraptured into wild, unselfconscious grimaces, or when he looks utterly impassive. The former makes me think of my power; the latter, his. It makes the difference between feeling as if I'm controlling a man through his cock and feeling as if I'm simply servicing him. Very different thoughts and both wonderful.


  1. hum... I'd never thought of it that way. I always feel, if he doesn't show some sign that he's enjoying what I'm doing, then he's just not enjoying it and I'm doing a bad job.....

  2. Maja - Nah, some guys just kind of "forget" to react because they don't naturally show it on their face, and some guys are deliberately stony because that is Very Dominate. In both cases they're still enjoying it.

  3. Mmmmmmmm. I have to say, one of the reasons I love sex with my liege so much is that he's so. fucking. expressive.

    It's like there's this secret space in him that he's only willing to open up right then.