Finger in butt = ugh.
Penis in butt = ooh.
I think this has discouraged a tragic number of people from trying butt play. Because if something as small as a finger is so uncomfortable, anything bigger must be worse, right? Wrong. I'm not quite sure why, but it's completely wrong. A finger up your ass feels like a really unpleasant poop; a cock up your ass feels like a tight hard fuck. Strange but true.
Interesting. I'm not experienced enough with anal (in either direction) but several partners have mentioned that fingers vs. cocks feel very different inside their vaginas as well.
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Fingers are knobby and bend in weird locations. Cocks are smooth and non-bendy.
ReplyDeleteI'd say it depends on forms and sizes, situations and lubricants. Still basically, the difference is there, that's right.
ReplyDeleteIf I may ask, how do you warm up for anal? Every guide says to start with one fingers, then two, and sort of work your way up. Do you start with a small toy or something instead?
ReplyDeleteI ask because my girlfriend feels the same way as you, but I'm not sure how to warm up.
ReplyDeleteI'll have to remember that. I've only ever had my guy's finger up there, and mostly it's not all that unpleasant except when he pulls it out, which feels like I just took a dump and haven't wiped. The idea of cocks feeling different is encouraging.
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